Coaching

We help mission-driven leaders and teams connect to, resource, and lead with their strengths. We believe that to disrupt systems of oppression and create change “out there” we also need to do the work “in here” — and we’re passionate about helping people figure out what they need to show up in their lives, work, and communities in more generative ways.

Who We Coach

We coach philanthropic, nonprofit, and grassroots leaders who are striving to work in more collaborative, equitable, and just ways — and navigating the tensions and capacity-building this involves.

You might choose to work with us for a variety of reasons. For example, we can help you:

  • Practice adaptive leadership,

  • Steward organizational change,

  • Operationalize a new community-centered strategy,

  • Transition into a new role, decentralized organizational structure, and/or distributed decision-making model,

  • Expand your critical analysis of power, privilege, and oppression,

  • Build generative conflict skills,

  • Grow your capacity to hold and work with complexity, and/or

  • Wield, share, shift, and/or build power in ways that feel authentic and just.

We especially love working with leaders, teams, and organizations who are grappling with how to translate intentions and commitments into action.

If any of this resonates, let’s talk!

Our Approach

Our approach blends training in the Co-Active Coaching Model and Leading Equity and Inclusion in Organizations with 20+ years of experience co-leading adaptive and transformational organizational change as internal staff — and facilitating strategy, learning, and change processes as a consultant.

You can count on us to:

  • Engage you as a whole person,

  • Relate to your strengths,

  • Adapt to your learning, interaction, and processing styles, and

  • Help you move from insight to action.

Our perspective is also explicitly anti-racist, neurodiversity-affirming, anti-ableist, LGBTQIA+-affirming, and feminist, which means:

  • We name when systems of oppression like white supremacy, cis-heteropatriarchy, and ableism are showing up in our lives and influencing our sense of self, relationships, and institutions; and

  • We support ways of being and building relationships and organizations that affirm people’s dignity, autonomy, and interdependence.

In short, we draw on whole-person development and systems thinking to help you make change in ways that both center individual and collective agency — and recognize the power of institutions and systems.

Pricing & Logistics

We offer three coaching partnerships, all on a sliding scale:

Catalyze

For leaders looking to spark change — within themselves, their team, their organization, and/or their community:

  • 90-minute discovery call,

  • 6 x bi-weekly 60-minute coaching conversations (approximately 3 months of coaching), and

  • Bite-sized email/phone/text support, as it’s useful.

Solidarity: $1,665
Full Cost: $2,250
Restorative: $2,835


Sustain

For leaders committed to stewarding a change process, who would benefit from a thought/accountability partner:

  • 90-minute discovery call,

  • 12 x bi-weekly 60-minute coaching conversations (approximately 6 months of coaching), and

  • Bite-sized email/phone/text support, as it’s useful.

Solidarity: $3,060
Full Cost: $4,050
Restorative: $5,040


Transform

Accompaniment for leaders navigating transformational change, and the tensions and deep capacity-building this entails:

  • 90-minute discovery call,

  • 24 x bi-weekly 60-minute coaching conversations (approximately 12 months of coaching), and

  • Bite-sized email/phone/text support, as it’s useful.

Solidarity: $5,400
Full Cost: $7,200
Restorative: $9,000


FAQs

Word of Mouth

  • "Kai cares deeply about engaging those she works with to create meaningful and lasting change. Whenever I've hit a snag in my organization she has been the first person I call to help me think through solutions. She is innovative, devoted, smart, and analytic, and beyond fun to work with."

    Jennie Smith-Peers, Former Executive Director at the National Center for Creative Aging

  • "What stands out for me in Kai's coaching is her ability to listen and notice when there is more underneath what's being said. They designed a comfortable and open space, I didn't feel rushed or led in a particular direction."

    Lyndsay Nugent, United Way Greater Toronto

  • "Compassionate, challenging, incisive, creative, funny, astute, culturally aware, organized, self-reflective, and always professional. These are a few of the many words that come to mind when I think of working with Kai."

    Michael Caines, Former Teaching Artist & Curriculum Writer at Free Arts NYC

What Next?

If you’re interested in working together, we invite you to schedule a complimentary intro call so we can get to know each other and decide whether we’re a good fit. This is an opportunity for us to discuss what brings you to coaching and what you hope to accomplish — and for you to get a sense of what it’s like to work with us.

Curious about coaching?